Addio 2020! Is that too polite? How about vai via 2020? Via al inferno 2020? Vaffanculo 2020 may be the most appropriate send off to this year that most of us would like to forget. COVID 19 has affected life for everyone. Even in my weirdest dreams, I never imagined plague and pestilence in the form of a planetary health crisis during my lifetime…..yet here we are.
My word of the year is sottosopra (sot•toh•SOH•prah)…..upside down. I doubt I am alone feeling like an extra in a bad science fiction movie, where everything in the world is upside down. Kisses and hugs spread disease, lounging on the couch binge watching Netflix is responsible adult behaviour, NOT visiting family is a sign of love, and losers are the ones who DO go out on New Year’s Eve!
The loss of life, paralysis of the world economy, and mental health effects of this pandemic have been devastating. It has been more stressful than most of us are willing to admit. Each of us copes differently with the confusion, fear and stress of quarantine, distancing, and finding distraction from all things 2020. Some of us are madly productive, and others slow right down. As long as our activities help us cope and we follow local guidelines to help everyone stay safe, it does not really matter.
This has been a time for many of us to reflect about what is important, especially so in this quieter of Christmas seasons. There are not many positive things to discuss during a global pandemic. Even so, I have felt humbled by the outpouring of kindness, humanity and creativity that has come out of this terrible situation and speak to the resilience of the human spirit. Just a few of my favourite examples include:
- The adaptability and creativity of businesses, workplaces, schools and social groups, offering their services differently and online. I have been doing zoom yoga 3-4 times a week! Many of these practices will likely continue in some form when the world is no longer sottosopra!
- The world becoming emotional watching videos of neighbourhoods throughout Italia singing in solidarity from their balconies and windows. This uplifting show of unity and community support spread positivity around the world.
- Collective rounds of applause and banging of pots for frontline health care workers. As a healthcare worker, I thank you all for your enthusiasm! This video ‘A Violin flies over Cremona’ of Lena Yokoyama playing Ennio Morricone for health care workers on the roof of the hospital in Cremona makes me cry. The full 15 minute documentary, with English voice over by my amica Anna Ambrosini is available here
- Pandemic street art! A creative response to the pandemic, often with a dose of humour. I wrote about street art for International Nurses Day and have another post planned soon.
- Volunteers helping the elderly with groceries and errands, sewing masks, donating blood and many other wonderful things.
- Nerdy science geeks are finally cool!
- The elementary school near home had to cancel their Christmas concert. They walked around and sang in front of the homes of the older and housebound neighbours instead. Singing with their antlers and little masks on-they were adorable. My parents were so thrilled, as was 98 year old Pasquale across the street.
- The extra effort to spread Christmas cheer this year with outdoor decorations and lights. Tree lots here sold out the in first week and many stores almost sold out of seasonal stuff by mid-December. My lights and decorations always help me get through the cold, wet, dark, depressing days of winter, so I have really appreciated this.
2020 was consistent…ha fatto schifo dall’inizio fino alla fine! It sucked from beginning to end!Please remember the global Christmas message of goodwill towards everyone. We are all facing challenges that are not visible. Do not assume you know what others are going through. As our Chief Medical Health Officer Dr. Bonnie Henry says ‘Be safe, be calm, be kind’.
Wishing all readers of Un po’ di pepe a safe, healthy, happy, better New Year, where the world is not upside down!
Tanti auguri a tutti i lettori di Un po’ di pepe per un migliore Anno Nuovo piena di gioia, salute e sicurezza, dove il mondo non è sottosopra
Forza! Hang in there everyone!
Virtual baci e abbracci, Cristina
Street art images from the artist’s instagram:
- No need to shit yourself @johndohart
- Trust Science, not Morons, Mike Dellaria @dellarious
- Il Bacio @TVBoy
You totally hit the nail on the head. Tough, frightening, sad year. We can only pray for a brighter and kinder 2021. Abbracci and baci Cristina. Stay safe and stay strong
Grazie Lyn! This took me a long time to write, as I was determined to keep it positive. Buon Anno, Cristina
Yes, I do understand. Totally. Buon Anno. Lyn
Excellent post! Grazie mille. Ti auguro un buon anno nuovo.
Tanti saluti!
Pamela
Grazie Pamela! Saluti e abbracci anche a te! Ciao, Cristina
Those bright and sunny masks, and great street art, are a good reminder that we can make beauty and meaning out of this year. Thx! Carol
Grazie Carol-that was exactly the point I wanted to make. The ‘pandemic laundry’ masks were made by Lucia with her sewing 11 class. Buon Anno, Cristina
You brought a smile to my face. HNY (just learned this abbreviation on Facebook…)
HNY to you too Karen! Don’t you feel like a teenager every time you learn new ‘text speak’? So awesome! Stay safe, Cristina
No, I feel like an old schoolmarm trying to blend. Ironically, it was my 82-year-old aunt who sent me the acronym greeting.
What a fitting expression to send off 2020, Vaffanculo with a big emphasis on culo. Your list of enlightened episodes was enjoyable to read. One thing I must note, still feeling like some kind of post Christmas Grinch, is that the inspiration and community spirit shown by Italians in the first wave, was sadly missing in the second -and still present wave. Australians began the Vaffanculo year with massive bushfires along the east coast, taking out more national forests and causing massive environmental devastation. Covid stepped in to take everyone’s mind off the main message, that the most serious emergency is still with us, climate change. If only this incredible community spirit, shown throughout 2020, could be harnessed to save the earth….. Magari….
Magari is right! I do think a lot of things will change when things get back to ‘normal’. Speriamo! Buon anno Francesca
Well said! to a better 2021, forza e coraggio!
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Well written.. moving and passionate. Thank you Cristina …Let’s kick covid 2020 off curb …. hopefully 2021 will bring vaccines for all and a safer world that is trying hard to not be upside down …I thank all the essential workers that hsvecrisjed their health to help us all …
I am so very honored and happy to come fro. Canada … this caring country of ours … xox thank you Cristina 😊
Grazie Susanne! 🥳 Buon anno!
I agree with your sentiments about 2020. I was thinking of anything good coming from it, its a short list. but now I can work from home and thats a positive. I’m still vertical so I got that going for me, My family have all stuck around so no one is missing, a good thing…and I didn’t spend a dime celebrating New Years. craky. hope ’21 is going to improve and we are able to come together in community again. isolation is for the germs. Happy New Year 2021.
You are right Patty-isolation is for the germs 🦠. Here’s to better things this year. Buon Anno, Cristina
It’s certainly been quite a year! And not all bad, as you rightly point out. Situations like these seem to bring out the best and the worst in us. Sometimes both. It’s all too easy to focus on the negative—and there’s a lot of it at the moment—but it’s also important to reflect on the good. Thanks for the reminder!
Grazie Frank! I thought we needed a little shot of positivity to end the year. Buon anno, Cristina
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Buon Anno, Cristina! Here’s hoping 2021 brings us serenity, health, and all the beautiful moments we had to sacrifice last year! ❤ Un abbraccio forte!
I’ll drink to that! Salute 🍷!
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